Parents, I Hear Ya

I think one of the hardest things about being a parent of a child with special needs is having other people tell you how you should raise your child. And once you make the decision you feel is best for your child, you will be criticized by those who don't agree. And you will also be criticized by those who agree, because you are not doing it right. It also must be frustrating when you suggest something and you are told "No" and no one will take you seriously.

I will admit I have been one of those people who criticize. I know better now than to tell parents what to do, I can only suggest and offer advice in the hopes that they will listen and ask questions. I am not a parent, so I feel I have no right telling other parents what to do. I can only offer them advice based on my own personal experiences and on my training as an educator and a professional who works with children and families.

Parents I know you may feel at times that the world is against you. You are not alone.

The best thing you can do is to try to let go of the little things (the teacher who is an idiot, the principal who does not understand why your child needs certain services, confusing IEPs, etc.). Love your child and focus more on living your life. Don't let others bully you and don't beat yourself up, you are doing the best you can.

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