I recently took a sewing class where I learned to use a sewing machine. I had a really hard time with it and made a lot of mistakes and was slow to understand certain concepts. But, the teacher was very patient and caring and made the process less frustrating for me. If she was annoyed with me, she never showed it. I really appreciated that. I try to remember this as I work with my students helping them learn new concepts or skills.
When teaching a student a new concept, think about how you like to be taught. It helps to think about what it must be like for him or her. Don't forget that every student is different. They have different abilities, personalities, backgrounds, and families. Realize that some of them may be going through a tough time. Some of them may not be as quick as others to grasp certain concepts. Some may have special needs.
It helps to think about trying to learn a new concept and how you would like it taught to you, depending on your abilities, personality, and situation you are currently in.
Let's say you need to learn how to make an apple pie, because you would like to be a pastry chef one day. So, you decided to take a class about apple pie making.
Before you actually participate in learning how to make an apple pie, do you think it would be useful for you to acquire an in depth knowledge of the history of pie making? Would it be interesting to you to have to memorize dates and important people and events involved with pie making, particularly apple pie making? What if you had to take tests and quizzes on apple pies, not on how to make them, but on mundane facts surrounding the act of making apple pies? Would learning these facts prepare you any better to make apple pies? Probably not. Sure, to some people learning about the history of apple pies would be interesting, but it will most likely not make them any better at making apple pies. Just like how it would not be any more helpful to learn the chemical make up of apple pies.
Imagine being yelled at or reprimanded because you look bored or you are having trouble paying attention to the teacher lecturing you about the history of pie making, when all you want to do is learn how to make an apple pie and practice doing it.
Imagine receiving the instruction through a sign language interpreter.
If you are hearing, and you only understand English and the lesson is being taught in Spanish, imagine receiving the instruction from a translator.
Imagine, when you finally get to participate in making an apple pie, someone standing over you criticizing every move you make. "No, that's not right. No, do it like this. Ok, try again. You are still not doing it right. Geez, here, let me do it." Or worse, the teacher gets angry at you for making many mistakes and for not getting it fast enough.
Imagine that you never had a chance to use and practice the skills taught to you via lectures, watching videos, watching the teacher do it, and reading about it. Basically, the teacher did it all for you as you attempt to learn how to make an apple pie. Even though you were able to touch the dough and smell the apples, you never had a chance to actually participate in making the pie, because the teacher, para-pro, or interpreter stepped in too often and did it for you. They just could not bear to see you make a mistake.
Imagine you have a significant hearing loss, and the class has thirty or more students in it, consisting largely of lectures and discussions, and yet you are seated in the back near the loud air conditioner vent.
Imagine that you could not get any sleep last night because you were hungry, because once again there were no food in the house and you did not have the means to buy any food and make dinner. On top of this, in the middle of the night, your mother loudly stumbled into your bedroom drunk again, upsetting you with her crazy rants.
These are just some things to think about when working with students or children in teaching them a new concept. You need to ask yourself if your students are able to relate to the material you are teaching them. You need to ask yourself, "What is the point of this lesson?" If you want your students to learn how to make apple pies, you should probably do away with expecting them to memorize various dates or know the chemical make up of apple pies.
But, how in a world does a typical teacher of twenty six or more students effectively teach every single student in the way they would like to be taught or in a way that makes sense to them?
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